Are You There God? It's Me, Margaret (2023) Review: A Heartfelt Coming-of-Age Story About Faith and Growing Up

 

Are You There God? It’s Me, Margaret (2023)

Are You There God? It's Me, Margaret | 2023 | 1h 46m
Genre: Coming-of-Age, Comedy, Drama, Family | Country: United States
Director: Kelly Fremon Craig
Writers: Kelly Fremon Craig, Judy Blume
Cast: Abby Ryder Fortson, Rachel McAdams, Kathy Bates, and others
IMDb: 7.3
My Rating: 8/10

Moving to a new town changes every aspect of Margaret's life. As she navigates friendship, puberty, family, and first love, she also begins a deeply personal journey to understand faith and discover what it truly means to believe.

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Synopsis

Margaret (Abby Ryder Fortson) returns home from summer camp expecting life to continue as usual, only to learn that her family is moving to New Jersey after her father receives a promotion. The news is difficult for her to accept. She must leave behind her close friends, her familiar neighborhood, and her beloved grandmother, who now lives alone.

Although the move initially feels overwhelming, Margaret gradually adjusts to her new surroundings. She quickly befriends her neighbor, Nancy (Elle Graham), who also happens to be her classmate. Through Nancy, Margaret is introduced to a new circle of friends and experiences many of the joys and insecurities that come with adolescence.

Nancy comes from a wealthy family and enjoys being seen as one of the most popular girls at school. She forms a private club with her friends, where conversations revolve around puberty, appearance, and growing up. As Margaret becomes part of the group, she begins comparing herself to others and quietly worries about whether she is developing "normally."

At the same time, Margaret struggles with questions that go beyond adolescence. Raised by parents from different religious backgrounds, she has never been pressured to follow a particular faith. Instead, they encourage her to choose for herself when she is ready. This freedom, however, leaves Margaret wondering what faith truly means and where God fits into her own life.

As she balances new friendships, changing emotions, and questions about identity, can Margaret find the confidence to embrace the person she is becoming?


Review

Are You There God? It's Me, Margaret is adapted from Judy Blume's beloved 1970 novel of the same name. Although the story is set decades ago, its exploration of adolescence remains remarkably relevant. The film captures the uncertainty of growing up with warmth and sincerity, making Margaret's experiences feel both timeless and relatable.

One of the film's greatest strengths is its honest portrayal of adolescence. Rather than focusing solely on romance or school life, it embraces the awkwardness of puberty, the pressure to fit in, the complexity of friendships, and the search for personal identity. These experiences are presented naturally, making the story especially meaningful for teenagers while also reminding adults of a stage in life that is often confusing yet transformative.

The narrative is well structured and easy to follow. Its conflicts unfold at a gentle pace, allowing each emotional moment to resonate without becoming overly dramatic. While most storylines reach satisfying conclusions, a few resolutions feel intentionally open-ended.

For example, Barbara's strained relationship with her parents never arrives at a definitive resolution. Likewise, the misunderstandings between Margaret and her friends seem to fade rather quickly, and Margaret's spiritual journey remains ongoing rather than reaching a clear conclusion. However, these unresolved elements also reflect the reality of adolescence. Not every question has an immediate answer, and growing up is often a continuous process rather than a destination.

Visually, the film is charming. The cinematography, warm color palette, music, and sound design all complement its nostalgic atmosphere. The performances are equally engaging, particularly Abby Ryder Fortson, who captures Margaret's curiosity, vulnerability, and emotional growth with remarkable sincerity.

One aspect that feels slightly less convincing is the period presentation. Although the story is set in the 1970s, the makeup and wardrobe occasionally lack the distinctive style that would more fully immerse viewers in that era.

Overall, Are You There God? It's Me, Margaret is a heartfelt coming-of-age drama filled with warmth, humor, and empathy. It gently reminds us that growing up is not about having all the answers, but about learning to embrace uncertainty with honesty and courage.


Memorable Scene

Margaret becomes curious about why she has never met her maternal grandparents. Instead of avoiding the question, her mother honestly explains how their relationship broke down after they opposed her decision to marry a man from a different religious background.

This quiet conversation is especially meaningful because it demonstrates the importance of honesty between parents and children. Rather than hiding difficult truths, Margaret's mother trusts her daughter to understand the situation and form her own perspective.


Memorable Dialogue

"She has no religion until she decides for herself."


Ending

Happy Ending


Recommendation

Worth Watching

(Aluna Uwie)

Had been published in Alunauwie.com
"This article was originally written in Indonesian and has been adapted into English for international readers."

 

 

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