Hello
Love, How was your day?
This
morning, I made noodles for breakfast. And for lunch, I cooked meatballs, tofu,
carrots, and green beans. It was so
delicious! Maybe you're wondering why I always cook carrots and green beans. It's because I usually buy enough to make
them last for a week. Hehe.
I
watched a movie to review. It's about a
girl whose friend is murdered. She
thinks her friend died because of a friend she met online. So, this girl tries to investigate the
murder. The story was so
unpredictable. At first, I was a little
bored, but I pushed through and watched it. In the end, it was really cool.
I
went for a bike ride today, for just an hour.
I think I got a stomachache because of the fan in my room. Or maybe it was from the spicy food I ate.
I'm not really sure. But I'm okay now.
I
shut myself down today. I just needed to
do it. I was thinking about so many
different scenarios in my head. My brain
was so busy! Haha.
I'll
share what I was thinking today. I was just thinking that sometimes, in a
marriage, a man doesn't want his life to change. I mean, as women, people ask us to be
"good wives." They want us to change.
Before
getting married, men and women have their own lives and routines, right? And after getting married, willingly or not,
you have to make some adjustments. There
are new responsibilities to take on.
But, from what I've seen, it's mostly women who have to adapt.
I'm
not saying this happens all the time. But it's what I've seen and felt. Men still want to hang out with their friends
without thinking about how their wives feel.
They feel burdened when their wives depend on them or ask them to take
them along.
Maybe
I'm just a conservative person. I mean,
I have many male friends. But, if my friend gets married or is in a
relationship, I set boundaries. I'm not
as friendly as I was before, because there's a heart to protect. That's how I would want it to be if I were
married or in a relationship too. But
some people may not feel the same way.
Some
people I've met think that interactions between men and women are no big
deal. They'll send messages to other
people, even if it's late at night. Or
they'll comment on their posts on social media or something like that. Some
people I know still use online chat apps to talk to other people.
That's
why I see so many news stories about cheating nowadays. Because not enough people have loyalty and
commitment. If you're only with someone
because of love, "love" will fade away. Maybe one day you'll get
bored or feel like the relationship is bland.
If you're only with someone because of their looks, "looks"
will fade too. You'll get older or
whatever. Nothing lasts forever.
That's
why it's important to know that loyalty and commitment are so important. When
you choose to be with someone, be responsible for your commitment. There will
always be someone better than your partner.
But your partner is the one you chose, so be responsible.
That
doesn't mean you have to stay in a toxic relationship. If you're in a toxic
relationship, please run, and don't make any commitments with them.
I
think that's it for today. Honestly, I
don't really know what I'm mumbling about. The more I write in this journal,
the more I lose my words! Haha! Any suggestions on how to keep it up?
See
you tomorrow, Love.
(Uwiepuspita)
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