Day 17 Till I Die

 

Hello Love, How was your day?

This morning, I made noodles for breakfast. And for lunch, I cooked meatballs, tofu, carrots, and green beans.  It was so delicious! Maybe you're wondering why I always cook carrots and green beans.  It's because I usually buy enough to make them last for a week.  Hehe.

I watched a movie to review.  It's about a girl whose friend is murdered.  She thinks her friend died because of a friend she met online.  So, this girl tries to investigate the murder.  The story was so unpredictable.  At first, I was a little bored, but I pushed through and watched it. In the end, it was really cool.

I went for a bike ride today, for just an hour.  I think I got a stomachache because of the fan in my room.  Or maybe it was from the spicy food I ate. I'm not really sure.  But I'm okay now.

I shut myself down today.  I just needed to do it.  I was thinking about so many different scenarios in my head.  My brain was so busy! Haha.

I'll share what I was thinking today. I was just thinking that sometimes, in a marriage, a man doesn't want his life to change.  I mean, as women, people ask us to be "good wives." They want us to change.

Before getting married, men and women have their own lives and routines, right?  And after getting married, willingly or not, you have to make some adjustments.  There are new responsibilities to take on.  But, from what I've seen, it's mostly women who have to adapt.

I'm not saying this happens all the time. But it's what I've seen and felt.  Men still want to hang out with their friends without thinking about how their wives feel.  They feel burdened when their wives depend on them or ask them to take them along.

Maybe I'm just a conservative person.  I mean, I have many male friends. But, if my friend gets married or is in a relationship, I set boundaries.  I'm not as friendly as I was before, because there's a heart to protect.  That's how I would want it to be if I were married or in a relationship too.  But some people may not feel the same way.

Some people I've met think that interactions between men and women are no big deal.  They'll send messages to other people, even if it's late at night.  Or they'll comment on their posts on social media or something like that. Some people I know still use online chat apps to talk to other people.

That's why I see so many news stories about cheating nowadays.  Because not enough people have loyalty and commitment.  If you're only with someone because of love, "love" will fade away. Maybe one day you'll get bored or feel like the relationship is bland.  If you're only with someone because of their looks, "looks" will fade too.  You'll get older or whatever.  Nothing lasts forever.

That's why it's important to know that loyalty and commitment are so important. When you choose to be with someone, be responsible for your commitment. There will always be someone better than your partner.  But your partner is the one you chose, so be responsible.

That doesn't mean you have to stay in a toxic relationship. If you're in a toxic relationship, please run, and don't make any commitments with them.

I think that's it for today.  Honestly, I don't really know what I'm mumbling about. The more I write in this journal, the more I lose my words! Haha! Any suggestions on how to keep it up?

See you tomorrow, Love.

 

(Uwiepuspita)


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