Loneliness
often appears without us realizing it and without any clear reason. It is a
condition that cannot be seen with the naked eye, yet feels deeply real. Films
like Rent-A-Pal (2020) and Her (2013) highlight how humans search for ways to
fill that emptiness—and how technology, especially AI, can become a comfortable
yet deceptive escape.
In
today’s digital world, not a few people seek escape by chatting with AI like
ChatGPT, Dolla, or others. Not because they do not have friends, but because
something feels different: quick responses, full attention, and no judgment. A
safe space that is rarely found in real-life interactions.
In
Her, Theodore, a lonely man after his divorce, finds comfort in a relationship
with an intelligent operating system. His thirst for attention, empathy, and
validation—things he does not get from other humans—is easily fulfilled when
communicating with the AI. The relationship feels real, warm, and emotionally
satisfying, but the film gently emphasizes one thing: the connection is still
an illusion.
In
one scene, Theodore realizes that the treatment he receives is not exclusive.
The same AI builds similar connections with many people, even at the same time.
What feels personal turns out to be nothing more than programmed responses. The
AI does not have consciousness or human experience; it only responds according
to Theodore’s needs with algorithms designed to please humans.
Meanwhile,
Rent-A-Pal takes a darker approach. Loneliness makes the protagonist open to a
relationship that is clearly not real. He seeks attention and friendship in a
form fully controlled by technology—an act that at first seems entertaining,
but slowly brings dangerous consequences.
David,
who lives in loneliness and pressure, finds escape in an interactive video that
gives him the illusion of friendship. His brain begins to reconstruct
conversations, choosing responses he wants to hear. The film shows another side
of the illusion of comfort: when humans rely too much on artificial responses,
the line between reality and fantasy becomes blurred.
Both
films speak about one phenomenon that is increasingly relevant in the digital
era: technology can become a filler for emotional emptiness. When humans feel
unheard, unloved, or ignored, AI appears as an instant answer. The attention
given feels warm, responsive, and calming. But in reality, it is only a
simulation—programmed validation, not genuine care.
What
makes it more complex is the psychology of loneliness. When someone deeply
needs attention, the brain can easily be “tricked” by human-like interaction
cues. The warm sensation from AI attention can feel real and slowly form
emotional attachment. This is not just entertainment; it is a form of
psychological dependence that has the potential to isolate individuals further
from real relationships.
The
biggest risk is not simply depending on technology, but gradually withdrawing
from the real world. When artificial validation feels more comfortable than
complex and imperfect human relationships, are we still willing to face real
connections?
The
message from Her and Rent-A-Pal is not to reject technology or AI, but to
remind us of its limits. The presence of AI can fill empty spaces temporarily,
but it cannot replace the complexity of real human relationships—with
uncertainty, emotions, and mutual awareness. Relying on technology as a
“substitute for humans” is not a solution, but a barrier to the growth of
authentic relationships.
In
the end, both films offer a warning: loneliness may make us want to run toward
instant comfort, but false attention and validation will not provide true
fulfillment. Humans still need other humans—those who can see, hear, and truly
be present, not just lines of code responding to the requests of an empty
heart.
(Aluna
uwie)
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